No, I don’t really have that many pet peeves about the writing advice I find on so many excellent blogs. Maybe only 2145. Or maybe it’s just that I see this one so often that it feels like I’ve seen it 2145 times.
Here it is:
“Whenever you find that you’ve used an “-ing” form of a verb, get rid of it. It’s a writing sin!”
The idea behind this advice is that the sentence
She was eating her lunch when the phone rang.
Means the same thing as
She ate her lunch when the phone rang.
I have a feeling that most native English-speakers’ ear for their language tells them that these two sentences don’t mean the same thing and can’t be substituted for each other. The “to be” + “ing” form is the “progressive tense,” denoting an ongoing event or action, often, in narratives, functioning as a…